Wednesday, March 18, 2009

Disagree with a girl

Have you been reading recently ?? I hope so uh...
I came across another interesting article, experience by the author himself & wanna share it here...
The more you should read if you are a guy.

When it comes to starting a conversation, most guys think a man must be "polite", or be nice by not disagreeing with the lady.
Guys like that probably would not dare try talking to women in such public places like the food court, or any other eating place for that matter.That's a flawed thought.

This is one of the places most guys tend to MISS OUT when it comes to meeting ladies.
The women are there - in queues, sitting one table away, sharing seats at the same table as you, etc.But most guys just look, eat and did little else.When you're "in-tune" to the situation, plenty of opportunities for knowing the opposite sex present themselves.

I was queueing to buy a sandwich at a Subway outlet. In front of me was this lady who was ordering her choice of bread and meatball toppings.
The moment she was done ordering, I said to her: "You're sure about your choice? I tried it last week and would never dare order that again."As I said that, I gave her a friendly face but my expression showed confusion at her choice of menu.That got her puzzled and she exclaimed: "Huh, why? That bad ah?"So I teased her by saying: "Too late for you now. The staff is already preparing your sandwich."And she joked right back: "In that case, you better let me eat whatever sandwich you are ordering."

From the conversation, she appeared receptive to chatting with me and a healthy exchange of jolly conversation followed.We proceeded to sit together, and chatted right through our meal. We even traded our contact numbers for a future meet-up.You're probably thinking: "The girl must be a nice person, so chatting her up was easy. It wouldn't be so simple if she was one of those "nasty" types."That may be true. And I have met nasty gals on countless occasions, but that's for another discussion.But think about it - there's NO WAY I would have found out if she was nasty or nice, if I didn't start her chatting in the first place.

The point is, conversations can take on a life of their own when both parties have different viewpoints on the same subject matter.To clarify, good things can happen when you "disagree" with a gal.

Jer's comment : Please do not attempt to try if you are not humours enough, i think it get worse; i know i sound mean but isn't true, ladies.... HAHAA
Well... maybe your silliness attract the ladies ? hence why not give it a shot !

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